Beware of the Re-bound relationships

Never go out with someone when you just broke up with someone else. No matter what your friends or anyone else says, it starts a cycle that's hard to brake. Because:

*You can loose your identity

-when your emotions are involved and your heart is hurt, sometimes we try to become someone else...in an attempt to be what we think our "X" wants or wanted

-you should never change who you are for anybody

*You can become afraid of being alone

-there is nothing wrong with being alone

-people don't judge you by who you have on your arm and if they do, do you really care what they think?

*You can loose respect for men and yourself

-this goes back to what I said about trying to change yourself for someone else

-sometimes we need to change ourself, if we don't like what we see, but never to make someone else happy

*If you've had sex, you could become promiscuous

-as your mom, I suggest you wait to have sex, because it makes things more complicated than they should be at this point in your life...

-and if you have had sex it's like a drug that controls some people and then it's not about a relationship, it's just about sex

*It makes your "X" jealous or crazy (and he might take it to the extreme)

-this has happened to me before and stalkers are crazy...they make you think they're just so in love with you that they can't go on, but what it really is is that they can't let go and be alone

-relationships are like drugs to them and they can become violent if they don't get their way

-this is just another reason to make sure you're in a relationship for the right reasons and that the both of you are on the same page

-compatibility has nothing to do with sex

*If done enough, you will loose your best friends

-your true friends will be there for you long after any man, that is unless you push them away

-and then making amends is sometimes very hard and near impossible